5 Signs Your Partner Is Cheating
The dating and relationship scene of today has never been more different now than ever before. We have therefore put together a little guide of signs your partner is cheating, to help you prevent you being taken advantage off. Ten to fifteen years ago we did not have the technology of today or the help of social media. These days it would be an extremely rare find to know of any single person that does not own a smart phone. A phone is no longer just a device used to call your friends and family. No, it’s much more than that and almost every relationship these days, hinges on the communication going through today’s smartphones.
So what are the signs your partner is cheating, you need to be on the lookout for when you suspect that all is not as it should be?
Signs your partner is cheating On You
Let’s start with the mobile phone. When you suspect that you are seeing signs your partner is cheating, the mobile phone will most certainly play a huge role in your suspicions. Gone are the days when you would be on the lookout for something suspicious in the mail addressed to your partner. Today, it’s all about your partner’s phone.
One of the signs your partner is cheating is when all of a sudden you no longer have access to your partner’s phone or into your partner’s phone. So you’re suspecting that something is just not right and you think up a plan of taking a sneaky peak into your partner’s mobile phone whilst your partner is in the shower. This is probably something almost everyone may have thought of doing at least once. So your partner has come home after a tough day at work and everything seems fine and normal and you have no reason at all to suspect your partner of anything at this stage. Your partner goes upstairs to get changed and have a quick shower. So far… it’s the usual daily pattern, Right?
You’ve followed up the stairs once you’ve heard your partner in the shower and you make your way into the bedroom, only to find that your partner’s mobile phone is nowhere to be seen. You’ve checked your partner’s clothes, the bed, the bedside table but still no sign of the mobile phone. Being extremely intrigued and suspicious you hang around the bedroom pretending to be having a quick tidy up, when in actual fact your awaiting the arrival of your partner from the shower. Moments pass and the anxiety in now starting to kick in. You have a thousand thoughts running through your mind right now. You saw the phone in your partner’s hand, where on earth could it be. Just then, your partner walks in from the shower with a towel around the waist and the mobile phone in your partner’s hand.
The one question running through your mind right now is…
“Why on gods earth had my partner taken the phone into the shower?”… RIGHT?
Mobile Phone Sign, that Your Partner Is Cheating On You
There was once upon a time when you would happily sit with your partner in the evening in front of the tele just relaxing and have no objection to having casual browse through your partner’s mobile phone. Throughout my extensive experience in cheating partner investigations, not one client has ever had access into their partner’s phone. The question I have to ask… Is this not a sign your partner is cheating on you?
Many could argue the point to give themselves reassurance that maybe my partner has private work related information on the phone which is why the phone is no longer accessible to me. It’s a fairly plausible argument I guess, but if that was the case, wouldn’t the employer provide your partner with a mobile phone just for work?
So, for me at least, I can’t accept the above as a valid reason of having the phone locked with a secret password.
I was recently contacted by a distressed lady who had been in a marriage for over 8 years and everything was going well. She had never had any reason to suspect her partner before nor did she ever see signs of her partner cheating on her. Until one evening when she casually picked up her partners phone and tied to browse through it. She saw the phone was protected by a password and there was no way she could get into the phone. She went on to explain that it all happened really fast. She hadn’t planned on going through her partner’s phone, it’s just that he popped into the kitchen to grab a drink while the movie was paused and there was his mobile phone. Even knowing that the phone was secured by a password didn’t really cause her any alarm. It was only her husband’s reaction when he walked into the room and saw his mobile phone in her hand that caused her alarm and concern. He was quite abrupt and snappy with her asking why she has his phone in her hand.
The husband was certainly investigated and after a period of discreet surveillance, we had enough concrete evidence of his affair.
Sign your partner is cheating by observing the change in behaviour
Another sign to look out for when you suspect your partner is cheating on you is how your partner’s behaviour has changed. You may have been in a relationship for some time and there is a regular pattern giving you no sign your partner is cheating you. Then you begin to notice a little change. Your partner has begun to pay a lot more attention on his/her appearance when leaving home for work for a job that as far as you were aware, was not what your partner looked forward to for quite some time. So you notice that your partner’s paying a lot more attention to grooming before leaving for work. A few days later the grooming has stepped up and now the clothing is changing. Your beginning to see that your partners has bought some new clothes for the same old job that has been grinding your partner down for years. So what’s changed?
Has your partner had a promotion? If that was the case, your partner would have told you… Right?
We often have cases where a partner has seen the sign your partner is cheating and a recent investigation comes to mind. So the client calls us late one night being quite concerned and upset about his wife. At this stage he is not 100% about what’s going on and needs help from experienced private investigators in this field just so that what he may suspect can be confirmed so he can face the harsh reality and deal with the fact that his partner is cheating. Or have the matter refuted so that he can now get on with his life without having to confront his partner and she never needs to know what was going through his mind. After a Free Consultation with the client we got to know a little more about his wife and of course asked him what signs your partner is cheating on you have you noticed?
The subject worked in a call centre where of course there is a huge amount of interaction with colleagues. So we placed the subject under observation for a period of a week and kept a discreet eye on her when she was on her breaks and lunch. We noticed she was quite a popular lady with her colleagues and there were always a good number of them taking their breaks together. A couple of days into the surveillance we started seeing the subject with the same male colleague regularly on all her breaks. There was laughter and a bit of friendly physical contact between the two. At this stage we don’t have any concrete evidence of foul play so we continue with the surveillance.
3rd day into the surveillance and we report back to the client advising him of what we have observed and recorded to but we are still looking for the sign that your partner is cheating on you. It’s lunchtime now and the subject and the male colleague have entered the car park. They walk to his car and have a cuddle by his car that most definitely is starting to arouse our suspicions. They are followed by our investigators to a local café where they enter and take a window seat. With clear line of sight of both subjects our investigators place themselves in a nearby car park and our female private investigator follows the subjects into the café and takes a table very close to them. There is a lot of holding hands which is all covertly recorded with time and date stamp so there is no way of getting out of this. A short time passes and the male colleague reaches over and kisses our clients wife affectionately and believe me when I tell you this was more than a friendly kiss.
With all the evidence collected we were able to disclose our findings to our client and confirm that we have certainly seen signs your partner is cheating you. The client was extremely pleased about the fact that he wasn’t losing his sanity, and his suspicions were proved to be correct. Now that he was well equipped with the concrete evidence, he could make an informed decision about how to deal with the situation.
Concrete Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You
Late home from work… Again???
Over the years, you have noticed a regular pattern in your partners working hours which has not changed for years nor has your partner ever mentioned a possible change coming into place. You begin to notice that your partner is coming home a little later from work. Its only 15 minutes, no big deal I guess, is what you’re telling yourself. Over a period of time the 15 minutes has increased and now it’s half an hour. Not every day, but you’re beginning to notice that it’s starting to become a bit of a regular pattern. So what are you to think? A casual conversation with your partner over dinner does not suggest that there is any overtime. Is this a clear sign your partner is cheating on you? Well, I wouldn’t jump the gun just yet but I would certainly advise to be more observant and you might want to start making a secret daily log.
Casually slip it into the conversation about coming home later. Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES at this stage do you want to press on the matter. If you really want to find out what if your partner is cheating on you or what is really keeping your partner from coming home on time, keep it cool and keep it together. This is the time to put on your detective hat and keep a log of the days and times you see the inconsistencies.
The Gym & Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You
So your partner has joined the Gym. Is that an obvious sign your partner is cheating on you? Of course it’s not. If every partner that joined a gym was suspected of cheating the world would be in turmoil.
However, take a informed and educated approach. What do I mean by that…
Ok, so when was the last time, your partner went to the gym? Or even discussed wanting to get into better shape?
Has joining the gym even come up in conversation before?
Take a logical approach to the situation and we would never advise you to jump the gun and conclude that your partner is cheating on you just because attending the gym is somewhat of an irregular behavior. Keep in mind all the above signs that we have explained and you might see a picture emerging.
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